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Aries and Libra: the self and the other

Directly opposite on the zodiac wheel, Aries and Libra cover each other's blind spots. Astrologers often call this a magnetic pairing, with strong attraction and a few predictable tug-of-wars.

ElementFire + AirAspectOpposite signsRuling planetsMars and VenusKeywordsIndependence and partnership, assertion and diplomacyBest inPartnerships where both strengths are usedShared traitBoth are cardinal and enjoy beginning things

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In this article
  1. Opposites with a lot in common
  2. Love and attraction
  3. Friendship
  4. Working together
  5. The push and pull
  6. Tips

Opposites with a lot in common

Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and stands for the individual. Libra, the seventh, stands for relationships. Opposite signs also share a modality, here cardinal, so both are initiators. The difference lies in how: Aries starts by acting, Libra starts by connecting.

Ruled by Mars and Venus, the classic pair of the god of war and the goddess of love, the match has long been associated with attraction between contrasting energies.

Love and attraction

Aries brings directness and passion, and Libra brings charm and a gift for making people feel at ease. Each is intrigued by the quality the other seems to have in abundance.

The difficulties are decision-making and conflict. Aries wants a quick answer, but Libra weighs every option. Aries may mistake Libra's diplomacy for evasion, and Libra may find Aries' bluntness jarring. Naming these styles helps you both stop taking them personally.

Friendship

As friends they are an engaging combination. Libra smooths over social situations and Aries pushes things to happen. Libra's love of beauty and company pairs with Aries' appetite for activity, so outings are rarely dull.

Libra may need to say when it does not like a plan, because it will often go along to keep the peace.

Working together

In business, opposites can build a well-rounded partnership. Aries drives the work forward and Libra negotiates, collaborates and keeps the relationships healthy. Clients and colleagues usually appreciate that mix.

Delays can arise when Libra hesitates and Aries pushes. Set deadlines for choices, and let each person lead in their strong area.

The push and pull

Each sign can swing to extremes when the other is present. Aries may become more forceful to compensate for Libra's flexibility, and Libra may become more accommodating, then quietly resentful.

Opposition aspects are often about balance. The pair does best when each lends a little of its own style to the other.

Tips

Ask directly for what you want, and listen to the answer. Remember that a sun sign tells only part of a story, so real habits and values matter more than any zodiac label.

Questions people ask

Are Aries and Libra a good match?

Many astrologers see strong attraction and a lot of potential, since each offers what the other lacks. It does require some balancing of independence and togetherness.

Why are Aries and Libra considered opposites?

They sit 180 degrees apart on the zodiac. Aries focuses on self and action, while Libra focuses on others and harmony.

What is the main challenge for Aries and Libra?

Handling disagreement. Aries is direct and Libra avoids conflict, so each needs to meet the other halfway.

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